024: Let’s Talk About Sex [Education] -W/ Lola Bade-Aluko [PART 1]


On this episode, we will be speaking to Lola Bade-Aluko who is also known as “Lawler”, is a Proudly Nigerian  Clinical Psychologist and Sexologist currently based in South Africa. Lawler is a wearer of many hats and has taken on a number of great opportunities in her lifetime. She is a Talk Practitioner, a host at various radio talk programs in Nigeria, England, and Swaziland, and also runs a Psychological Unit called Shoulders and a reach-out unit, called Real Issues with Lawler where she volunteers, hosts talks and does counseling. She does all this also while working as the Executive Director of a Technology Firm.

On a more personal level, she is a proud mother to two young adults and a wifey. Lawler is very passionate about mindset transformation and believes in the use of media as well as various other forms of outreach techniques in Behavioural Modification.

[00:01 – 03:16] Opening Segment

  • I Introduce our guest, Lawler

[03:16 – 30:54] Defining Sex

  • Lawler shares what sex is.
  • Lawler talks about the stages of Sexual Education
  • We Share some African Perspectives of Sex and how it was taught
  • Lawler talks about her approach to sex education with her children

[30:54 – 1:00:56] Host and Guest share Experiences

  • Lawler approach to her son liking a girl
  • Anyoh share about her Childhood boyfriend
  • Building a safe space for children to talk about Sex
  • The Importance of Sex Education 

Tweetable Quotes:

“As Africans, we make talking about sex a taboo and that is not healthy.” – Anyoh Fombad

“African Parents prevent their Children from dating, parties, and socializing with the opposite sex but when they turn 24, we want them to marry. How?” – Lola Bade-Aluko

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You can connect with Anyoh on Facebook (@anyohf), Instagram (@anyohfombad), and Twitter (@anyohfombad).

Lawler can be reached through any of the following media:

  • Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter: @realissueswithlawler or Lola Bade-Aluko                  
  • Email: realissueswithlawler@gmail.com
  • Contact Number: +27760123910
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